Saturday, 24 December 2022

Home Made Mac & Cheese

Is there anything more comforting that Mac & Cheese? This is a simple go to in the winter as a heartier meal between soups, stews, and chili. It takes 30 minutes max including boiling water!

Start by making a roux. Melt 1/4 cup of butter over medium heat and then whisk in 1/4 cup of flour until it starts to brown. Turn down the heat and add a can of coconut cream, whisking until the mixture is smooth. This is also when to add your preferred spices. Standard for us is pepper, mustard powder (or in a pinch a squirt of prepared mustard), onion powder and garlic powder. Spice with your soul! Now, fold in a bag of shredded cheese (or about half a block shredded). This will become nice and smooth with good pull. Stir in some reserved water from your cooked pasta. If it gets too thick, stir in more coconut cream. Mix this into your cooked pasta and serve!

Apple Crisp

This recipe is a long-standing favourite. When my son asked to make it for us for Christmas, I dug around and couldn't find whatever recipe I had been using. That is mostly because I had not been using a recipe, but filling the dish and spicing free hand. I've been working (slowly) on making a proper recipe book for my extended family using several generations of recipes left as a legacy by my Aunt Freda. When I went through my files, this recipe popped out as the closest to what I'd been doing. I've adjusted the recipe with some basic spicing for the apples, but honestly, spice as you like! The crumble topping is directly from her recipe. No pictures yet as my son will be making it later.

Grease a 9x13 pan. Peel and slice preferred apples to generously fill.

 

Cover sliced apples with the following, stirring to coat.

 

1 ½ tsp cinnamon

½ tsp nutmeg

¼ cup of sugar

½ tsp salt

2 tablespoons lemon juice

 

Topping: 

¾ cup of brown sugar 

¾ cup of rolled oats 

¾ cup of flour 

½ cup of margarine 

 

Work topping into a crumb with a fork and spread over apples. Bake 350ºF for about 45 mins or until golden brown. Serve warm.

Sunday, 11 December 2022

Gingerbread Cookies

9 gingerbread cookies shaped like lego mini figures fresh out of the oven, still on a cookie sheet


I don’t have an origin for this recipe - I found it handwritten on lined paper at the back of my family recipe book. It’s my handwriting so it was tried and enjoyed several moons ago. We’ve already tried the first batch and they passed the test for everyone. Lego cookie cutters were a Lego VIP gift with our Christmas shopping this year. On to the recipe!

Cream together in order:

1/2 cup butter
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 cup molasses
1 egg
1/2 tsp vanilla

Sift together following ingredients then mix into wet ingredients:

2 1/4 cups flour
1 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp baking powder 
1 tsp ginger
1 1/2 tsp cinnamon 
1/2 tsp nutmeg 
1/2 tsp cloves 
1/2 tsp salt

Once well combined, refrigerate for at least an hour. Preheat oven to 350°F. Then roll out about half the dough on a lightly floured surface to about 1/8 inch thick (or roll with your heart). Cut into desired shakes and bake on greased cookie sheets for 8 minutes. Let cool on wire racks as long as your patience allows. 

Saturday, 3 December 2022

Chocolate Cherry Spice Bundt Cake




This is a modification of a recipe I found at https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/8472/chocolate-bundt-cake/. It has become my go-to cake for special occasions but feels especially suitable for the cooler months with all its spice and sweetness. 

Preheat oven to 325°F and grease a 10-inch Bundt pan. If you have a smaller Bundt, don’t fit it more than 3/4 full as this does rise during baking. We use any kind of oil spray as it gets better coverage than butter. Put a bag of frozen dark cherries on the counter to defrost while you prep the batter.

Dry ingredients

3 cups all-purpose flour (can be substituted with 1 to 1 gluten-free baking flour)
½ tsp baking powder
½ tsp salt
½ cup unsweetened cocoa powder
½ tsp nutmeg
1 tsp cinnamon
½ tsp allspice 
½ tsp cloves

Sift together all dry ingredients and set aside. 


Wet ingredients

1 cup butter, softened
½ cup shortening or pure lard
3 cups white sugar
1 tsp vanilla extract
1 tsp almond extract (optional)
5 eggs

Cream together wet ingredients in the order given. Add eggs one at a time and mix them well.

Add dry ingredients to wet gradually, alternating with milk (1 cup total).

When all ingredients are combined halves the cherries (they will still be mostly frozen but manageable. Fold the halved cherries into the batter and then pour the batter into your greased Bundt.

Bake at 325°F for 90-100 minutes, or until a toothpick poked in the cake comes back clean. If your oven runs hot, start checking at the 70 min mark.

Once your cake is out, loosen it from the sides of the Bundt pan and flip it onto your serving dish. Sift powdered/confectioners sugar on top. This cake is great hot out of the oven or cooled.


Tuesday, 5 July 2016

Remembering Her

I'm writing this from the blessed position of still having my Mom. I feel a bit morbid doing this while her health has improved so much, but I know when things eventually and necessarily decline, I won't have the strength to endure it. I will need to grieve and feel it all but won't have an outlet. So I will read this. And hopefully the many people who loved her will read it too and remember what a beautiful, loving, crazy woman I got to share with the world.
Mom's early life was filled with a lot of doubt and trauma. She experienced hurts no person should and came through full of faith, positivity and love. Because of her pain she became a confidante, mentor and advocate for many hopeless and helpless people. She turned her desire to protect the weak into a long and fulfilling career as a nurse. She never cared for office politics (though she craved the feeling of being recognized, appreciated and even loved by her peers and employers) and as such would work beyond what was expected to provide all her patients the love and care she would give her own mother. I saw it first hand as she set aside her grief to carrying each of my grandparents gently into Heaven with the greatest amount of dignity.
Her name means Justice, which is fitting because justice and mercy always followed closely beside her, although she always prefered mercy. As a mother, being firm wasn't exactly her strong point. She wore her heart on her sleeve and, though often racked with deepest emotions, was slow to anger, quick to cry and quicker to forgive. Her last years in this battle for life, I watched cancer try daily to steal her peace, but she fought back, rallied by the husband she chose again daily for nearly 40 years.
But I don't want to remember her as the woman who fought and finally succumbed to cancer. That is just the final short chapter. I want to remember more of the truth of her. She was crafty. And not regular crafty. She could sew, knit, felt, crochet, dye eggs, make rosaries, and... well... everything. I always had the best Halloween costume (as did many of my friends whom she gifted lovely costumes). I was guaranteed a ridiculously embarrassing and slightly dated wardrobe (blossom hats, hammer pants and coloured jeans, each at least a year behind the trend faded). We had homemade playdough, a puppet theatre and any stuffed toy we wanted, all made from scratch. She could bake better than the best of them. Her cooking was full of reliable home style favourites. She was everything a Mom should be in the old fashioned sense. She was a devoted protector of animals. She had brute strength you wouldn't believe. She could fix a toaster (and even knew not to shove a metal utensil in while it was plugged in....looking at you, Dad). She had repeated run ins with a snake on a family vacation (it loved the warmth of our crock pot) and showed us all how a country girl dealt with pests. She was a strong swimmer and once rescued me from drowning as a small child like the fierce Mama bear she is. She often got bored by the political, theological and general -ogical chatting Dad and I got into. She would sit while we chatted, plugging away at whatever her latest craft was. A Ukrainian Easter egg (put a ribbon on top and they make great Christmas presents). She collected tea pots, patterns, stories, and friends. She had a remarkably large head for a woman her size. She was a shopaholic, but rarely shopped for herself. She wasn't a girly girl, but gained a loved for mani-pedis in her final years. A late touch of vanity can be forgiven for a woman who seldom saw how beautiful she truly was.
She could sing. Sweet and soothing and powerful. She taught me how to make harmonies. She was the keeper of folk songs and skillful at lullabies. She had specific taste but always listened and liked what we were listening too. Whenever she sang a solo at Church she craved our praise, which was easy to give. Music wove through our early lives and the voice singing in my head will always be hers. I'm sad my kids won't be able to hear her sing the way I did. My voice is hers, just younger. I strive to give my children her gift to me. The gift of a life lived with a soundtrack of their own making.
Wherever Mom went, she made a friend. Her openness and kindness made everyone love her. Dad and I would joke that part of the reason most people liked us was because of her. She worked hard to make friends. Some of that came from a genuine fear of being unloved. She had felt so unwanted as a child that that seed planted in her heart would grow like a looming tree without warning. Our whole family worked diligently for years trimming it back, planting seeds of love, friendship and faithfulness that would be forever choking out that ancient fear.
I don't know how I'll go on now, Mom. These past few years have been impossibly hard as even now I can't call and lay my burdens on you like the little child I always want to be with you. I have had the weighty blessing of being able at last to take care of you in my small ways. I'm sorry for all the times I wasn't kind or was a handful. I'm sorry for all the times I didn't accept your generosity because it got in the way of my ego. I'm sorry for every wasted second I didn't take to make you feel like the precious and beloved woman you have always been. You were a gift from God. I know already you're up in Heaven, bugging Jesus to make my life more full of the shiny things. I know you're praying for each of us. I know you're feeling entirely what it means to be able to forgive every hurt. I know you finally know how loved you have always been. Our journey down here without you will be a lot less bright, but in the end I can't let go of the feeling that the impossible pain of losing you is nothing compared to the joy of having shared my life with you. I will see you again, Mom, while we share eternity. Until then, I will always love you.

Friday, 6 February 2015

Homeschool for a Day

In my city, we've been having a rough winter, weather wise. School has been cancelled a lot lately due to snow, ice, or whatnot. There's only so many days you can spend free-styling life before you want to have a plan. I had a friend ask me for some homeschool for a day tips, and it got me thinking that more people might want to hear some easy ideas to keep kids occupied, especially when it's too cold to simply shove them out the door into the snow! I decided to break the ideas I have by subject matter for easier use.

SCIENCE

When you're home, experiment based science is going to be your best friend. There are lots of easy ones you can do with basic ingredients. The important thing is to get the kids to make observations and then write and draw what they observed. I've included some links for experiments we loved.

Clean a Penny with Chemistry Make sure you have a lot of pennies on hand. I made sure to have one that were in different states of dirty so they could see how dramatic the change was for the dirtiest.

Alka Seltzer and Oil Lava Lamp My kids loved this one like crazy. Experiment with how different amounts of alka seltzer tabs to see the changes!

Melting Ice This is beautiful and made entirely with ordinary kitchen items. If you don't have time to make a big block of ice, either use ice cubes or, y'know, get some ice from outside your front door. I bet an icicle would be phenomenal for this experiment!

Frozen Bubbles I can't think of better weather to try this one! If you have to go out, might as well do some science while you're out there!

Inflate a Balloon with Science We enjoyed this one a lot. All you need is a balloon, an empty bottle, vinegar and baking soda!

LANGUAGE ARTS

Another important thing to do is work on various elements of language arts. Here are a few ideas to help with that!

Composition This link will send you to some writing prompts, but you could just as easily invite your kids to freestyle and simply compose a story. You can also challenge them to write a rhyming poem.

Spelling A great follow up to composition is to identify any spelling problems they encountered. Make a list of all the improperly spelled words and get them to write them correctly about 10 times. This will help them remember the correct spelling for the future!

Word Searches This is just an example of the types of word searches you can find if you go and search them on the internet. Print out a few at a time and set them searching. 

Handwriting For younger kids, practicing letters and handwriting is always a good idea. Set them down with a piece of loose leaf and ask them to write each letter 10 times. When they're done, identify letters they had problems with and spend time helping them write them correctly.

MATHEMATICS

Work Sheets Find some work sheets for your child's age and grade. Let them do the worksheet alone and then come and check over their work. This will help you identify and help with any problem areas.

Word Problems Just like the other work sheets, print out some with word problems as this will get them thinking in a whole new way.

THE REST

Art: Google a famous painter and learn a little bit about them. Find out what was special about their style and then see if you the kids can mimic something about their work. You can also do a project where you show how mathematical shapes can be used to form the basic shape of any object.

Geography: Pick a country and ask them to do a mini research project. Population, language, cultural dance, food, music, and history are all fun points to touch on. Consider setting them a list of questions to look for.

Baking and Cooking: Let the kids cook with you. Explain why the flavours work together, what culture the food comes from and what is nutritious about the food choices.

Play: Don't forget to have fun! If you're snowed in, try making some of the many home made doughs for some sensory play. I love adding some peppermint extract to make even the most basic dough fun! This no bake recipe was incredibly popular with my kids and help up nicely next to the name brand stuff.

I hope these ideas inspire you and help you through these long snowy days!

Wednesday, 7 January 2015

You Can't Take it With You

We've all heard the old expression "you can't take it with you" so many times that it has probably lost its meaning. On the most basic level, it refers to the fact that we can't carry our riches to the grave. To me, however, it means a lot more than money. When I was reflecting on this today in prayer, I couldn't help but be reminded of all the baggage I carry with me that I can't take with me beyond this life. Some of it I probably shouldn't carry with me another day, to be honest. Each one of us has some kind of baggage. When I call it baggage the first thought is never pleasant. We are all collectors in one way or another. Collectors of things, feelings, experiences and grudges. We cocoon ourselves with our possessions, both material and mental, and clutch to them for dear life. But here's the kicker, we can't take our baggage with us to Heaven. Obviously we won't be able to bring the physical stuff like our money, finery or heirlooms. That's the stuff everyone thinks about when they hear this expression. The fact is that we can't take our grudges, wrong thinking, pains or self-obsession with us. My need to have the next best thing has no place in Heaven, because God is the best thing that has ever been given to me, and in Heaven I will at last have Him to the fullest. Before I can open myself to the fullness of God's self-gift to me, I need to let go of everything that is weakly trying to fill that deep, abiding need.

This duty we have to let go of all the "it" that we can't take with us is hard work. It can take a lifetime and more.When I'm on my deathbed, I doubt I'll be able to look back and say that I have reached a level of perfect detachment from all earthly things. I'll probably still be clutching my pearls, holding a stray grudge for a perceived slight or a real injury, and wrong about more than a few things. Very few of us reach a level of complete detachment, and by and large we get the pleasure of recognising them as Saints. Now don't get me wrong, it is my goal to find myself fully prepared for Heaven (I am one to set the bar high), but I recognise my weakness and inability to accept all the graces God pours out on my broken little heart. So where does that leave me? As a Catholic, I have the supreme comfort of realising God has prepared for me a place where I can finish whatever unfinished work was due to make me ready for the joys of Heaven. Purgatory, which is by the way not just a sort of eternal waiting room, is a place where I will be able to work to the purification of my soul while basking in the hope of Heaven. My hope will always be for my long home, but I rejoice in God's gift of my one day temporary home, that is Purgatory. Purgatory and purge come from the same word. It means to make clean or pure. And for all my friends who love to purge all your extra "stuff", use the same spirit and purge any emotional baggage you have too. Since we can't take material possessions with us anyway, we should get a head start on Purgatory and start letting go of our spiritual hang-ups.

Here's the lucky thing, if your "it" is love, you get to carry every last drop of that. So if there's anything you want to pile up, fill the rooms of your heart up with beautiful memories, love of others, hours of prayer for friends and strangers, and acts of kindness to one and all. The more you fill your heart up with love, the less room there will be for the "stuff" that clutters up your life and your soul. Now that it's a new year, maybe we can take on the challenge to say goodbye to a little more brokenness and welcome in more love.